Me and the four most amazing kids on the planet:  MY GIRLS.

Without air there can be no spark, without spark there can be no flame.  Without fire, there is no passion.

This particular segment of the BikiniMom Network will be dedicated to all of the children who have no one to mentor, love, guide and nurture them, the kids who have fallen by the way side because of two parents battling in the courtroom, especially when one is constantly targeted by malicious litigation leaving them with no choice but to defend at all costs or lose forever regardless of no wrong-doing on their part.

I want to provide a place for these children to gain inspiration and support so that they know that regardless of how lost and unloved they feel, their lives are a blessing, that they have special gifts, that someday they will grow up and they will be free to take all of the difficult situations they didn’t ask for and be able to turn them into their greatest strengths so that they can go on to leave their mark on the world. Not a mark of bitterness, despair or hatred but one of hope, love and kindness.

I want for children everywhere who are old enough to read and move about on the internet to know that there are adults like me who understand them and who WANT to hear what they have to say. I want them to know that thoughts of suicide and self-destructive behaviors are NOT AN OPTION…  EVER! I want them to know that even though tomorrow seems far away, tomorrow WILL be better.  You’ve just got to hold on till then. I promise you though you are having a hard time believing that the nightmare and insanity will end one day — IT WILL.. All you have to do is occupy your time with positive outlets, feed your soul, expand your mind… and when you gain your freedom by becoming old enough to leave the abusive household the court has damned you to or you feel damned being shuffled from one alienating parent to the next or you are counting the moments until SOMEONE in the family court system actually does their job and gives a darn… that day will come. Maybe not until you are 18 years old—but it will come.

Until that day, know that you are not alone, that there are MANY OTHER children who share your lot in life. Sad but true.

And for all of the mothers and fathers who are trapped in the nightmare or who have walked away because you simply couldn’t afford to fight another day, you are neither alone.

This is not  a “mother’s or father’s rights” fight, but about the fight for those that no one seems to want to advocate, but who so many pay lip service SAYING they advocate for them. This is for THE CHILDREN.

Where direction this site will take and how it will grow remains to be seen but it will ALWAYS be about THE CHILDREN.